Stress. We’ve all felt it.
We stress about work.
About love (or our lack thereof).
We stress about those things we can control and those things we cannot. Stress, it seems, is a natural part of human life—but it doesn’t have to run your life. It doesn’t need to be enduring. We don’t have to just sit back and take it.
When you feel stress creeping into your life, there are steps you can take to come back to normal, to equilibrium, to peace. And they can be affordable, too! (Because getting a massage once a week isn’t always the most cost-effective solution!).
Here are just five ways you can destress for free:
Depending on your nature (extroverted, introverted, or somewhere in between), socializing can cause or reduce stress in varying degrees. But most agree that spending time with the right people is an energizing, rejuvenating experience. If you fill your time and your mind with the company and conversation of people who fill your cup (rather than drain it), you’re likely to find your stress ease. So take a careful look at your calendar and really consider what you’re saying “yes” to when you accept that next dinner invite.
Visualization is a powerful process. When in a state of stress, try visualizing the way you’d rather feel: perhaps you’d like to feel free, encouraged, surrendering, peaceful? Visualize the state you desire, and watch as your mind and body begin to move into that state now. Of course, visualizing won’t erase that looming deadline or bring your soulmate to your doorstep (or maybe it might, who knows?), but it will change your state—mentally, physically, emotionally—today so that you can start living into the feelings you’d rather feel instead.
It always comes back to the breath, doesn’t it? Your breath is your saving grace—literally. It keeps you alive! But so often we restrict it, even if unconsciously. When we’re stressed or nervous or anxious, we hold our breath or breathe in short, shallow bursts. Make a mental note to yourself to breathe when you find yourself feeling stressed. Stop what you’re doing and breathe deeply—in through your nose, out through your mouth—for as long as you need to. Not only will you find that your heart rate slows and the chatter of your mind tends to cease, you’ll also likely find greater clarity around whatever was vexing you and a newfound motivation to solve your stressors.
Without movement, stress sticks in the body. It hangs around far longer than it needs to—unless you take the (physical) steps to clear it out of your body. The next time you’re stressed, try going for a run or doing some yoga or signing up for a spin class or simply taking a walk around the block. When you get your body moving, the stress can move through you too. Even better, make a daily habit of exercise, so that stress never has the opportunity to stick around longer than is necessary!
And when all else fails (though I promise the tips above won’t!), treat yourself. When the stress won’t abate, allow yourself the time and space to luxuriate. You don’t need to head to the fanciest spa—though you’re welcome to! You can create a stress-free, relaxed, indulgent experience right from the comfort of your own bathtub. Water is healing and restorative, too. Just by spending some time submerged in the bath, you’ll come out feeling cleaner and fresher in body, mind, and spirit.
What is your favorite way to destress (for free)? Share your tips with us in the comments below!
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