Engagement Season Can Feel Joyful — and Tender
It’s mind-boggling that 33 percent of engagements — 1 in 3! — happen during the five-week stretch between Thanksgiving and New Year’s Day. (Mine did. Jose proposed on New Year’s Eve in 2014.) It’s no wonder this time of year has come to be known as engagement season.
And while it’s joyful for those celebrating a forever kind of love, it can also sting if you’re not there yet — and quietly wondering if you ever will be.
In fact, scrolling past photo after photo of cozied-up couples during a season already soaked in connection and family can amplify feelings of loneliness or hopelessness about your committing to her soulmate — or the aching space where one hasn’t landed yet.
Calling In a Soulmate Isn’t Luck — It’s a Learnable Skill
So…
What’s the real difference between the women getting engaged this season—and the ones still wondering when love will finally land?
It’s not luck.
It’s not timing.
It’s this:
They’ve realized that calling in a soulmate isn’t magic—it’s a skill set.
Because here’s the truth:
You don’t land your dream job by hoping it shows up.
You don’t build financial confidence by wishing for it.
And love is no different.
Think about it:
When you want a promotion, you don’t just light a candle and cross your fingers—you build new skills, right?
When you want to feel confident with money, you don’t just journal about abundance—you learn the tools that help you take action.
Love is similar.
Calling in your soulmate isn’t about luck or timing—it’s a skill set.
One you can absolutely learn.
It takes inner work. It takes clarity. It takes the willingness to get real about what’s not working—and the courage to do something different.
The good news? You don’t have to wait.
You can start right now.
And if love has felt confusing, disappointing, or just out of reach—this is your moment to shift it.
If you’re done waiting…
If you’re ready to stop hoping and start attracting…
If you want love that’s real, lasting, and aligned…
Your Next Step: Call In the Love You Deserve
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Empowered Womanhood in Action: Love Isn’t Luck — It’s Leadership
This post is about so much more than rings and proposals. It’s about reclaiming your power in love—no longer waiting, hoping, or wondering, but learning how to lead with clarity, intention, and self-respect. Empowered womanhood means recognizing that soulmate love isn’t a fairytale you stumble into—it’s something you actively call in through deep inner work, emotional alignment, and aligned action. This blog is your reminder: you don’t have to sit on the sidelines of your own love story. You get to be the author.
xo,
She is the creator of The Motherhood Setup, a framework for understanding how the Motherhood Fantasy, Good Girl Conditioning, and Invisible Labor collide to leave so many Mothers overwhelmed. Her work asks what changes when we begin to make the invisible visible, Count the Work, and recognize Motherhood as both a joy and a job.
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