It’s mind-boggling that 33 percent of engagements (1 in 3!) happen in this five-week period between Thanksgiving and New Year’s Day. (Mine did! Jose proposed on New Year’s Eve in 2014.) This period has come to be known as “engagement season.”
While it is SUPER exciting for people who get to celebrate the joy of finding and committing to her soulmate— it can sometimes be tough to see if you’re not there yet. (And perhaps wondering if you ever will be.)
In fact, seeing photo after photo after photo of cozied-up couples during a time of year that already emphasizes connection and family can actually intensify feelings of loneliness or hopelessness about your own soulmate relationship—or lack thereof.
So…
What is the #1 difference between women who will be engaged over the next 5 weeks….and women who are still struggling to attract their perfect partner?
The answer is very simple…
They understand that calling in your soulmate is a SKILL-SET that they needed to develop.
Here’s the thing…
You’re not going to find your soulmate by just wishing and hoping for it. (That’s not how it happens with any OTHER area of your life, right?)
Think about it: When you want a promotion at work, you don’t “wish and hope” for that new offer… you train to learn new skills! When you want to get better at managing your finances, you sign up for a course to teach you the basics.
Love is NO different!
Calling in your soulmate requires a certain SKILL-SET…just like anything else.
And it’s a skill that you have to work to develop—learning the tools and practices necessary to do deep, transformative personal work on yourself, then take action to attract the love of your life.
The good new is, you can begin developing your “skill-set” starting RIGHT NOW!
If this is an area that you struggle with…
If you’ve been “waiting” and “hoping” for love to come your way, instead of sharpening your skill-set…
If you’re serious about attracting love into your life NOW (not 2 or 3 years from now…)
…then reach out, and schedule a free discovery call with me:
SCHEDULE YOUR FREE CALL
On our free call, I’m going to help you get total clarity around:
- What you WANT your love life to be like…
- WHY this is so important NOW
- The hidden ROAD BLOCKS that are holding you back from love
- The EXACT steps you need to take to meet the right partner & create lasting love
SCHEDULE YOUR FREE CALL
P.S. And maybe next “engagement season,” you’ll be texting me a photo of you with your soulmate, too 🙂 I can’t wait!
xo,
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Dr. Dowling has spent years helping people live richer, more joyful lives. She has seen firsthand the magical pairing of psychology and life coaching, which allows people to access their happiest selves.
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